Wednesday, February 08, 2006
No not me. John and I went to the base today to pick-up the rest of my uniform. As we drove around a corner we came face to face with an Armored vehicle (it looked like a small tank without the cannon), with a florescent yellow sign saying "student driver" hanging from the barrel of the very large gun. After we almost peed ourselves because of this gun suddenly pointed in our direction, we almost peed ourselves laughing at the sign. What a way to say "don't mess with me, I'm just learning!" I think I want something like that when I eventually go for my licence!
I want to ask everybodies advise as well. I'm nervous about telling my father that we're moving back. And even more nervous about telling him why. My first instict is to just pack up and leave without a good-bye, but then I imagin two things. 1. How much his heart will break at my leaving and not knowing what he did wrong. Even assholes have feelings that can be hurt. Especially if they don't know they're assholes. 2. Howmuch he'll harrass my mom and sister. First he'll take his anger out on my mother for raising someone who so inconciderate, and second he'll try to get contact info from them for money he thinks we own him. But if I tell him personnaly that I've had enough of his attacks on my husband, then I have to deal with his anger alone. There's no way in hell I'm gonna let John be there if I do this.
I would love to see everyone's opinion on this.
posted by Turnoc's Lady @ 7:52 PM,
2 Comments:
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At 12:32 AM, February 09, 2006,
briddums said...
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I'd just tell him you are leaving. You don't need to tell him why... or you should be able to come up with a different convincing enough reason. No need to deal with anger if you don't want to.
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At 1:44 PM, February 17, 2006,
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I agree too. I'd just tell him flat out and not give him time to respond. You have enough stress in your life right now and you don't need the twit ridiculing you, making you feel bad, and taking it out on John.