Monday, February 13, 2006
Go figure! We decide to move back to BC and he starts picking up some bad Alberta habits. For example, pulling up to a red light and stopping a full car length into the intersection. We drive a Crown Victoria! It's a big car! Then the next day I comment on something we drive past at least twice a day and he swerves into the on coming lane to see what I'm commenting on. (It was a mild comment. I was simply wondering at the history of a very old, abandoned house and barn. As I said we drive past them everyday) But those are only some of the things he's started doing. Ah well, so long as he leaves the scary Alberta driving in Alberta I'll be happy.
I found out the other day that an ex-gf of John's has been emailing him occasionally in the last year. Now that fact would not have affected me, John was upfront with that right from the start. It was the content that upset me. She would email him with very personal details of her sex life, ask John about his, and if he's happy with his. She asked him to tell her something personal about himself, stuff he's never told anyone, not even his wife. She's even gone so far as to say that I'm pressuring him into adopting a child, and has tried talking him out of it. That was a decision that WE came to after months of discussing and planning. I've seen his responses to her emails, and I'm happy with those. He never spoke about anything personal, and never called me down in any way. We spent most of that night talking about her emails and how we felt about them. This is the same ex-gf who came into my hairdressing school and accused me of stealing her bf (they hadn't been together for more than a year), and just after I moved to the coast she called him to see if he would sleep with her. John's got me calmed down for now (I've never doubted where his heart is. Have I mentioned how much I love John?) but if she ever sees us anywhere she'd better go the other way and pray I didn't see her. There's a reason she's John's EX-girlfriend. She's also married! I wonder if her husband knows she's asked mine about being in a threesome?
Anyway, enough of that for now. 15 weeks and counting! I can't wait to see everyone! I've told my cousin that I'm planning on being a social sponge running around absorbing up everyone's company for a while!
Happy Valentine's Day everyone!
posted by Turnoc's Lady @ 11:22 PM,
2 Comments:
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At 12:51 PM, February 14, 2006,
briddums said...
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*heh*. She always was a funny girl. She's probably still a little bit interested in johnny-boy, seeing as he was her first...
But from the convo's I've had with her, I'd guess a lot of the rest is just her being concerned with him and how his life is going.
... and maybe a smattering of jealousy since you "stole" him from her. -
At 1:18 PM, February 14, 2006,
Turnoc's Lady said...
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I don't give a rat's butt how she feels. She should be "concerned" with her own husband and leave mine alone!